When your stomach is empty, it growls.It sends signals. It asks you to eat. But when your mind is empty, it doesn’t make a sound. […]
Category: My Thinking
Returning to Focus in a Noisy World
We live in an age of constant noise. Almost every day, a new controversy.Every week, a new person to praise or to condemn. And before […]
How to Avoid Stress in the Workplace
I have spent more than a decade working in the IT industry. I have seen projects change direction in the middle of execution.I have faced […]
The Reality of Not Coming Home (3 Hypotheses)
I have a hypothesis. When Indonesians choose not to return home, there are usually 3 underlying reasons. There are patterns. First. Another place simply offers […]
Beyond Hard Skill and Soft Skill The Three Skills That Matter in the Age of AI
For years, we only know that there are two types of skills: Hard skill and soft skill. Hard skill is technical ability.Soft skill is communication […]
The Reality of Life: You Will Be Disappointed.
You will be DISAPPOINTED by many people. Not once.Not occasionally.But repeatedly. By Friends, Colleagues, Leaders, and your Government #ehhh And sometimes, the people you trusted […]
Manipulators Fear Open Confrontation
I will start 1 sentence: Manipulators don’t like open confrontation. They avoid it.They smile in public.They whisper in private.They influence indirectly.They attack quietly.Because open confrontation […]
It’s Okay to Step Back to Protect Your Focus
Let me say something that might sound “controversial”. It’s okay to step away from people who make you feel small. It’s okay to mute.It’s okay […]
Life Is Not Fair. It Never Was. So What Are You Going to Do?
Life is not fair.It never was.It never will be. That is not a complaint.That is a fact. Some people are born with access.Others are born […]
When Someone Is Better Than You — Now What?
There will always be someone better than you. Let’s start there. Smarter.Faster.More articulate.More experienced.More connected.More decorated. You walk into a room feeling prepared and then […]